Selasa, Desember 23, 2008

He Wants to Meet Kachiew!!

It has been 4 months since I studied in Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia (Indonesia University of Education) Bandung, West Java, Indonesia. I have so many new friends who always make me happy every single day.

Let me introduce one of my funniest friends. She is Citra Dewi Saraswati. You can call her Kachiew, but she will be happier if you call her “Kachiew Geulis” (Beautiful Kachiew). She is really tomboy. If you don’t know her, you’ll think she is a boy.

Do you want to know a funny story which involved her?

Okay, let me tell you. One day after Listening Class, I saw Kachiew was so busy with her cell-phone. She replied the message quickly and smiled. Hm, what was happen?

Suddenly, Icha—one of my classmates—said loudly, “Guys, Kachiew will meet a boy!”
“With who?” I asked.
“A boy who study in Faculty of Technique and Profession. He was in the same team with me when Orientation Week,” explained Kachiew.
“Oh my God… really? Cie cie . . .” I said.
“No, no… It’s not like that!” Kachiew rejected.
After that, Kachiew, Icha, Kidung, Yana, Chae, Dian, and I went to the parking lot in front of Faculty of Language and Art (out faculty). “The Boy” whom Kachiew would meet was there. Because my friends and I were so curious about “The Boy”, we had been pretending not to be Kachiew’s friends.
Four minutes later, there was a red motorcycle approached Kachiew.
“The boy is coming!” I said.
“Hm… nothing special about him,” Icha complained.
“Except the motor cycle, I think,” I replied.
After chatted about five minutes, Kachiew approached us with a book on her right hand.
“Guys, look at this,” said Kachiew.
“What’s that?” I asked.
“His English homework.”
“WHAAATTTT???!!!” We yelled together.
“Be quiet, guys! Let’s do this homework,” said Kachiew.
“So… he is…” Yana confused.
“He doesn’t miss you? He just needs your help to do his home work? Oh my God! That hurts, Kachiew! That hurts!!” I complained.
“It’s alright, guys!” Kachiew laughed.

So, after that, sometimes when my friends who are in the other faculties suddenly text me or call me, I always consider that probably they just want me to do their English home work. I don’t want it! Except they promise me that they will treat me Chicken Noodle someday! Hehehe… ~



Jumat, Desember 19, 2008

First Time at UPI , , ,


When I was second grade at 24 Senior High School, my friends and I participate in drama festival at Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia (Indonesia University of Education). I never had visited UPI before and I was so curious. After arrived at UPI, I swore that I didn’t want to continue my study there because UPI is so far from my house at Cibiru, Bandung.

But, I don’t know this must be called “fortune” or “bad luck”, I was accepted at UPI now with the major English Language and Literature. The next day, my friends—who accepted in UPI too—and I went to UPI for the registration. After that for the first time we explored the whole UPI. I knew UPI is big, but I was shocked that UPI is bigger and huger than my imagination! There are so many new buildings from each faculty (including Faculty of Language and Art, I study there) that makes me feel that I’m the lucky one who is able to study in this university. There is a unique garden too. It’s so quiet and matches for you relax your mind, chat with your friends, or just walk around there. And the mosque is so huge, unique, and beautiful! So, you can take a pray with peace, calm, and cool.

Moreover, when I knew that UPI is the 4th rank at the best university in Indonesia after Universitas Gadjah Mada, Institut Teknologi Bandung, and Universitas Indonesia, haha… I’m really proud because I can study inone of the best university! But, if I remember the journey from my house to UPI needs two hours and a lot of money, sometimes I get bored and tired.


Ranna on UPI's Logo

But life must go on! Every single day, I try to motivate myself. Hopefully, I can survive in this leading and outstanding university!

Selasa, Oktober 21, 2008

Soulmate = Pembawa Esensi Romantis?? Check this out!!


Gw juga baru ‘ngeuh’ soal itu waktu gw nonton Oprah Show. Entahlah episode berapa, tapi yang jelas waktu itu Oprah mengundang pengarang buku best­-seller “Eat, Pray, Love”, Elizabeth Gilbert.

(kurang lebih beginilah percakapan antara Oprah dan Elizabeth)


Saat itu Oprah bertanya, “Apa kau menganggap bahwa suamimu adalah belahan jiwamu?”

Kontan ia menjawab, “Sayangnya bukan.”

Terdengar suara “hm...” panjang dari penonton. Ia melanjutkan kalimatnya.

“Percaya padaku Oprah, belahan jiwa tak selamanya memberikan esensi romantis ketika sang belahan jiwa datang ke dalam kehidupan kita. Dalam kehidupanku, sang belahan jiwa datang justru memporakporandakan hidupku. Ia menghapus kehidupan lamaku yang depresi berat akibat bercerai dari suami pertamaku, lalu ia mengajarkan cara bermeditasi ketika aku di India. Dan... di sinilah aku sekarang!”

“Jadi belahan jiwamu adalah sahabatmu, bukan suamimu?” Oprah tersenyum—tanda ia menemukan suatu hal baru, begitu juga para penonton.

“Ya, tentu saja. Suamiku—yang aku nikahi di Bali—adalah partner hidupku yang terbaik. Tapi untuk belahan jiwa, sahabatkulah yang terbaik. Aku dulu juga sempat bingung. Aku baru saja bertemu dengan sahabatku ini—dan suasana sedihku tentu saja masih kacau balau. Dan ia membuat hidupku tambah kacau balau dengan memaksaku keluar dari kesedihan dan juga mengubah cara pandang hidupku. Awalnya sangat tidak nyaman, tapi sekarang... Oh My... aku bersyukur telah bertemu dia di India... Dialah soulmate-ku...”

You know what?

Akhinya gw bisa menerjemahkan perasaan sesungguhnya sama “dia” setelah nonton Oprah Show... Ternyata gw emang sama sekali gak FALL IN LOVE sama “dia”... Tapi yang jelas, peran “dia” sama persis dengan sahabat Elizabeth Gilbert “Eat, Pray, Love” itu...


Mengobrak-abrik hidup gw...

mengubah cara pandang gw soal hidup...

and.. voila! Semenjak ketemu sama “dia”...

gw jadi manusia yang baru...

manusia yang lebih dekat dengan Sang Maha Kuasa...

Have u find ur soulmate??

Kamis, Januari 31, 2008

To Be The 2nd of Drama Festival

achievement

April 2007

Mrs. Dedeh and Mrs. Elly told us (24 EC) to join at all of competition by UPI, except debate competition (because until now we don't have a good team for that). We agreed to join the competition, and share the 'works':

# Endah was participates for Story Telling Competition

# Yuliani and Devi was participate for Scrabble Competition

# Nelma was participates for News Reading Competition

# Me, Fatia, Rachmi, Farida, Dhea, Endrio, Ani, Dianing, Ache, Koko, Chita, Satrio, and Tommy was participate for Drama Festival.

I concerned to Drama Festival as co-director. And I helped just a little bit Farida wrote the script. Oiya, we took a traditional folk from West Java, "Lutung Kasarung", with some improves. I asked Farida for the complete story of Lutung Kasarung but it was so ordinary!

Me : We must make a unique drama with unique script!

Farida : How?

Me : Ng… I want to ask a question… who's cursed Prince into Lutung?

Farida : How about fairy?

Me : Fairy? Hm… interesting…

Farida : The Prince is peeping the fairy whose has take a bath at the river. Because the fairy is so angry, she curses the prince into a Lutung.

Me : Hoho… that's interesting. So, who'll be a fairy?

Farida : … you?

Me : (shock) ME!? Why must ME?!

Farida : Because you're the best candidate to play this role. Please… for our victory…

Me : (thinking… thinking) OK, OK… I'll take it!

Finally, I've been a fairy… a ridiculous fairy…

me, rachmi (narrator), and Fatia (maid). do you think I'm beautiful? Come on!


# the day…

We've got the sixth turn, so we could see the other participants. The 1st turn was from Alfa Centaury High School and they made the highest standard. Huh… I was doubt that we could be the first winner. But, I must do the best that I can.

# Time for us to show… our show was so smooth although the music scores couldn't be played and with a little improves. Because the end of that show still needed more time, we went back home firstly.

# The next day, when I came into my class (XI IPA 4), I saw my friends really happy. It was make me wonder to ask. They said that we were being the 2nd winner of Drama Festival! Oh my God, I was so exiting…! I really happy! And of course, I wasn't forget to say thank a lot to my Lord, Allah SWT. Because his blessing, we could be a winner… even though we were not be the 1st winner, we were happy for that!

Sabtu, Januari 26, 2008

The Baby Steps to Save Our Earth

explanation


Don’t ever think that your baby step influential nothing. Because, the big problem likes global warming, truly is the accumulation impact of individuals. Let’s pay attention the points that can we do for the mission for minimal of green house effect.

1. Bring Your Own Fabric Bag

Probably, we still hard to say ‘no’ to product that uses plastic. But, minimally you can reject plastic bag when you going to shopping anytime anywhere. How to? Always bring your special own fabric bag. This campaign of decreasing plastic bag is also being popular by Anya Hindmarch., an England designer. She works together with organization “We are What We Do” design a canvas bag with tagline “I’m not a Plastic Bag”.

2. Green Transportation

If the distance isn’t too far, it’s better for you to walk or use your bicycle! Or use public transportation. Besides able to decrease traffic jam, it’s also can minimal for vehicle using. It means decreasing CO2 emission.

3. Choose The Product that Friendly for Environment

Obviously, throw the trash into the garbage is not enough because the trash truly can be recycled. Recycle a newspaper stack until 1,2 meter already able to save our big tree! OK, maybe you still hard to do it. So, choose the products that friendly for environment.

4. Plants Tree!

What’s tree do you like? Just plant on it at yard of your house; so that the carbon in air can pull back. Don’t forget, use tissue and paper as less as possible. This is one of efforts for save the tree.

5. Switch Off!

Switch off your lamp (or you can change it into CFL Lamp because more economical up to 60%). Don’t leave the DVD player, computer, or TV with stand by mode.

6. Decrease AC

Use a fan, or open your window for circulation because AC is dangerous sometimes. Besides that, wind and sun’s heat is better than use dryer cloth machine that can produce a lot of carbon emission.

7. Join for Campaign

Don’t be so doubt to join in campaign of green house anticipation! For example, with write or talk in forum or media. Or you can join into organization like Greenpeace, WWF, Walhi, etc.

Let’s become part of the movement to prevent global warming.

Because if we’re just wait and see and do nothing, maybe we’ll wake up one day, but it’ll too late!

Earth's Call


report


The earth is getting hotter. Because industrialization and uncontrolled CO2 using, the temperature of earth increases. The research’ result of IPCC (Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change) that reported to all of the countries, extremely shocked, be a bad address for human being, plant, and animal. If the use of CO2 not quickly decreased, in the middle of 21st Century, the earth’s temperature will increase 4,50C.

Island or ice continent at North Pole (Arctic) and South Pole (Antarctica) is melting. There is increase of billion cubic water volumes in ocean. The impact, thousands of little islands are sink, the big islands’ region are smaller. The abrasion sinks coastal area and the climate is change.

The phenomenon of global warming directly influences earth’s life. Those are appearing new ills that not existing before in the most modern medical science, which are like mad cow, SARS, and bird flu. Those are “call” from earth to all human being. The various disasters like flood, tsunami, and dried; are also another signs of “earth’s call”. The earth’s capacity to life is decrease. Limited source. Clean water as prominent life is decreasing. Appears global hunger, human’s fight till war of inter-country become another impact of green house effect.

Earth’s call already calling to all of the country, Indonesia too. The flood that attacked mainland Jakarta and other place at Java is example of “Earth’s Call”.

What we must do? Save our earth. Started from simple thing. Just boycott the refrigerator or AC Freon. Plant on something useful like tree on empty land, stop illegal logging, decrease traveling using car or motorcycle, watch out of CO2 emission, maximally alternative energy that friendly for our environment, etc.

If human’s civilization agreed want live on earth forever, they must campaign “Save Our Earth” together. Because “Earth’s Call” still waiting the answer from human, without exception.


Why companies need female managers


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Businessman and woman
Ms Fisher says a good business needs both male and female staff

When Helen Fisher speaks, the politically correct members of her audience are likely to flinch.

Declaring that she's "definitely not a feminist," the American anthropologist from Rutgers University dissects the differences between men and women.

Men are more analytical; women are better long-term planners.

Each gender has a different way of falling in love.

And the invention of the plough did more to set back gender equality than anything else since.

What Ms Fisher says is not psychobabble. She bases her findings on archaeological evidence, MRI brain scans, genetics and large-scale surveys of how men and women behave.

And understanding that male and female brains develop and behave differently is important not just if you are in the dating game.

It also helps us to hire the right people, improve teamwork and can - to quote part of the title of her talk at the World Economic Forum in Davos - grow a company's bottomline.

Once upon a time

Double-income families are not an invention of modern times.

Wedding ring
Your ring finger apparently says a lot about you

"In prehistoric times, double-income families were the norm, and women provided 60-80% of the evening meal," says Ms Fisher.

But following the invention of the plough and with the resulting need for hard manual labour, the power balance shifted.

Only since World War I are women re-entering the workforce and regaining their status in society.

But there are much more fundamental differences between men and women, says Ms Fisher, that have been shaped over millennia of evolution.

For starters, men and women are thinking differently. Brain scans prove it, as does plenty of other research.

On average, women gather more data, consider the context, are intuitive, have a sympathising mind and think more long-term. Ms Fisher calls it "web thinking".

Men, on the other hand, are more focused, think linear, focus on rules and the short-term - "step thinking".

The culprit

Blame testosterone for the difference. From the moment the embryo's brain develops in the mother's womb, high testosterone levels will make you focus on details in later life.

Pregnant woman
Blame your time in the womb if you aren't a great detail person

Now lift your hand and look at your palm. Is the ring finger longer than your index finger? Then you were the recipient of high levels of testosterone.

Chances are that you are an analytical thinker (or very musical), regardless of gender, while a shorter ring finger suggests you have a more sympathising mind. And men tend to grow up on lots of testosterone.

You want proof? Research shows that film scripts written by women are more complex and have more ambiguous endings than those written by men.

Male doctors focus on the illness and its treatment, while female doctors take a more holistic approach.

The long-term thinking of women makes them better investors.

It's even true in the bedroom, says Ms Fisher. Men tend to focus more on what they are doing, while women are easily distracted, she says to slightly embarrassed laughter from her audience.

And when men get older and their testosterone levels sink, their brain starts to work differently - they become more sympathetic to the plight of others.

But why the difference? Well, over the ages men tended to be the hunters and needed to focus.

Women, in contrast, had much more diverse tasks, like bringing up children (which Ms Fisher also believes may be the reason why women are better talkers: language is the key tool to control children).

The business case

So what does all this mean for business leaders?

Combine the long-term thinking of women with the short-term focus of men.

And bear in mind that different thinking also results in very different behaviour.

Men think more in terms of status and rank. Women prefer flat hierarchies.

Men can have tunnel vision, women may fail to get to the point.

Women find it difficult to counter aggression. When men push back, it earns them the respect of other men.

When women apologise, they are not really sorry. For men it's a serious affair, a perceived weakening of their status.

Ms Fisher's list goes on and on, but her message is clear.

Managers, says Ms Fisher, have to realise that men and women act differently, and that they complement each other.

Having only men or women on your team would be like hopping on one foot instead of walking.

As the status of women is on the rise again, says Ms Fisher, we "move forward to a lifestyle we had a million years ago".

source: news.bbc.uk